I don’t know how you feel about the five
love languages material. While it has
created a marketing juggernaut all of its own which some shy away from - the
concept and ideas involved can be very helpful.
To date, I have really only thought about it in terms of adult
relationships, most specifically marriage, but also to understand my extended
family better.
In reading some more parenting books
recently, I came to realise that these were helpful things to discuss with our
kids. Please note I have not read the Five Love Languages for Children book,
just other books that refer to it! I read
the adult one years ago.
So we got out the butcher’s paper the other
night – thought about the 5 languages, what each might include and then got to
pick two that we thought meant the most to us.
You can see the writing in the photo below. (I removed the indicators of
which we all are)
What was worth noticing for our family was:
- All five of us cared about time – either family time with the 5 of us, or one-to-one time (especially kids with mum or dad). We have realised those kids’ dates / individual times with each need to be a high priority in our calendars.
- None of us chose presents as our top two languages. That might explain why none of us get that excited by gifts!
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