The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex, Sheila Wray Gregoire (Zondervan, 2022)
Some readers may recall that I have reviewed a number of Gregoire's books over the last 12 months - The Great Sex Rescue, The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex & The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex.
As such, this is not a detailed review, because much of the content from 10 years ago is similar, and I have already reviewed it, Having said that, every question I raised with the last book has pretty much been addressed or changed. I'm still uncertain whether two books are needed to cover married Christian sex. I feel like one addressed to both partners could have more value. However, the Gregoires have chosen this path, and they've done it well.
With the overarching premise that great sex is pleasurable, intimate, and mutual, Gregoire helpfully explores three aspects of intimacy – physical, spiritual, and relational. She covers sexual intimacy, orgasm, differences in libido, and challenges that couples face, and ways to grow in love, service, and pleasure with each other. It addresses many common questions and issues, as well as areas of disappointment or concern.
I noted that at a number of points her message to women is "you're not broken". It's sad to consider how often she must have heard this sentiment in order to keep addressing it.
An appendix covers honeymoon sex in detail, with lots of helpful tips and guidance, without being overly prescriptive.
This is a detailed, frank, balanced, and honest book that promotes mutual pleasure in the bedroom. It works well on its own, but will have most value being read alongside the companion volume (and in fact, the questions for couples to work through are the same in each).
My hesitations raised at the end of The Good Guy's review remain, especially regarding the Gregoire's online presence.
Despite that, these two books are now solidly near to the top of my recommended reading for married intimacy.
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